Exercise is a good thing.
No kidding huh? What I mean is that getting kids involved is good for their bodies and good for their minds and the side effects are GOOD!
Exercise produces endorphins that make you feel good, it burns calories and it wears you out - that's a good thing for everyone but especially intense kids. It gives them a positive place to put all that emotional energy.
Dervish is already in Soccer but he'd like to do more and I've been exploring some good physical activities for kids that not only helps them with energy levels, intense emotions, and intense personalities, but also promote self esteem and self discipline.
The Pie is not really a sports guy but he does need exercise. We found his niche in swimming.
Swimming is a great sport for those who are not of a competitive nature. Even though Pie is not competitive, he is in a competitive swimming program. It works for him because your skills are mostly measured against yourself. There may be a winner when they compete but your score is measured against your last score as well so you always end up with a goal.
The only downside of swimming is the perpetual dry skin. It seems amazing that being in water so much can cause dry skin but it can be a real problem for swimmers and it is for Pie. (I found this information at Bathtime Suds Report - Bath & Body Reviews)
Other than that - I think it's one of the perfect sports for someone that is easy going, even tempered and who would live in the water if he could only grow gills. (He has actually asked me on more than one occasion if he could sleep on an air matress in the pool!! No Kidding!) It's also perfect for those not so inclined for more agressive sports.
As for The Dervish and The Girl - well their intense nature might just find swimming of benefit but they are not so interested in it. That's probably a good thing because the Pie does really need to have something that's his and only his since the other two do tend to excel at a lot of things and sometimes seem to leave him in the dust - sounds like another blog topic!
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Thu, 29.04.2010 08:12
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Wed, 10.02.2010 18:47
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Wed, 16.12.2009 07:53
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Tue, 27.10.2009 10:48
Child Behavior Modification is so tough. There are moments that yelling at them is not enough. Tantrums in toddlers [...]
Thu, 17.09.2009 16:26
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Sat, 29.08.2009 17:03
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Mon, 06.04.2009 20:06
My seven year old son cries alot. I can completly relate with the parent. It is something you worry about when [...]
Tue, 24.02.2009 16:31
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Sat, 03.01.2009 23:49
Thanks for the article, It was important to hear the part about not bottling up emotions otherwise later in life, that [...]
Wed, 24.12.2008 00:11
my two year old daughter cries all the time and i don't know what is wrong.she gets up at night and scamming and then [...]
Wed, 12.11.2008 21:10
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Sat, 04.10.2008 18:55
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